Wake up
to become
who you are.
Discover who you are beyond who you’ve learned to be. Try things out, embody your dream – and encourage others along their way.
What if you are more than you have believed so far?
At some point you learned who you are. The reliable one. The sensible one. The one who isn’t too loud. It worked well for a long time.
And still, something stirs now and then. An urge, a restlessness, a sentence you almost said.
Dreamfluencing takes exactly that seriously.
One sentence, two movements.
Wake up
Much of what you take to be you is habit. Experiences, expectations, old ways of staying safe. They made sense back then. But they are only one version of you.
Become who you are
You don’t need to know the other version before you set off. It shows up as you try things. Step by step, in your body, in your ordinary days. You will never be finished. Luckily.
The Dream Gap
Between the person you learned to be and the one you already sense, there is a gap.
Most people treat it as a problem. We think it is the most interesting place there is.
Feel the Gap
Notice where your dream meets your habits. In your belly, your throat, your shoulders. Don’t change anything yet.
Explore the Edge
Play at the edge between the familiar and the new. With your voice, with movement, with a role, with a single sentence.
Embody Your Dream
Keep what feels right. In small steps, in the middle of your everyday life.
Not a staircase with three steps. More of a dance: you switch whenever it suits you.
Play is the Bridge.
Effort rarely gets you across the gap. Play often does.
When you play, you get to try something on without having to be it yet. Your body remembers.
You can try it right here. It takes half a minute.
What if you allowed yourself to …
Sit up tall or stand. Make yourself an inch wider than seems polite. Stay for three breaths. What shifts?
Say one sentence out loud that is true right now. It can be small. “I’m tired.” “I’m looking forward to tonight.” Listen to yourself saying it.
Look around. Where does your gaze get caught? Stay with it ten seconds longer than makes sense.
Think of something that recently made you glad. Let it reach your face. Overdo it a little. Nobody is watching.
Which step is right in front of you? The small one, not the big one. Put one foot forward and notice how that feels.
Pick the one that winks at you.
Nothing is saved here. This stays between you and you.
The Embodied Dream Playground
A space to play with who you are becoming.
A room where people try themselves out. With movement, voice, improvisation, writing. With nothing to achieve. And with others who watch without judging.
The Playground is taking shape right now. There are no dates yet.
Influencing, turned around.
Look at me.
You know this one. I show you who I am, what I do and how I live.
I see you.
This is Dreamfluencing. I see what is in you and what you long for. And I tell you.
You don’t need reach for that. A kitchen table will do. A conversation with a friend, with your child, with a colleague.
What a Dreamfluencer does
Four things. None of them needs a certificate.
Seeing
Looking until what is particular about a person becomes visible.
Witnessing
Staying present when someone shows themselves. Without fixing anything.
Encouraging
Saying out loud what you believe someone is capable of.
Celebrating
Cheering when someone dares. Even if it was wobbly.
Dreamfluencing is only just beginning.
There is no big community yet and no events calendar. There is an idea, a practice and an invitation to be there early.